Hasta pronto España
Well, I am currently sitting in the Madrid Barajas airport…I’ve already been here some 2 ½ hours waiting to check in, it’s 6something in the morning. Monica and I came together, but she is already gone, probably getting on her plane to Frankfurt before heading to the USA. I cannot believe I will soon be checking my bags and heading home. These past 4 months have been…wow, can’t even be described. Between the things that I’ve done, the people I’ve met, the sights that I’ve seen, it is more than some people are able to do in a lifetime. Over these past 4 months, I made it to 6 countries, including 2 continents. I am just so thankful that I got the opportunity to come and study in Spain, and now I can hardly imagine my life without it. The song that is playing on my computer is very appropriate, Our Lives by The Calling. Although at times it was hard, especially when my stuff got stolen in Barcelona, but also when I had roommate problems and our whole class was struggling in our lit class, I made it through and I feel like I’ve grown up. I know that my speaking in Spanish has definitely improved, and I have a lot more confidence. It is also a lot easier to listen and understand native speakers, I remember the first few weeks with my host mom I understood probably about every fifth word she said. Reading is also easier, and writing, but I think most of all speaking and listening.
I think the things that I will miss most are fairly obvious, although probably not all. Of course, I will miss all the kids in our program, I think I now know almost as much about BG as I do about Miami, Magda, Susana, etc. I will miss Araceli, Javi, Javier, and Laura, our amazing intercambios, from who I learned so much and had experiences I never would have had had I not met them. On a smaller scale, I’ll miss some of the food, paella (not mariscos, but chicken!), tortilla española, sunny side up eggs and real, fresh fries, the pastries, the bread, cheese, etc. I’ll miss the sunshine and the perfectly cloudless days, besitos, horrible Spanish haircuts and mullets (the Spanish are experts!), meeting friends in the Plaza de Cervantes for a drink and to hang out, public transportation, coming home after the sun comes up, and hardly any homework. I’ll miss booking a bus a few days before to take a daytrip somewhere, even another country, or traveling every weekend. Siesta is also one of those things, it’s nice to rest in the middle of the afternoon, but at the same time its pretty annoying when everything is closed and you can’t do anything. There are many things I know I’m leaving out, but I really am going to miss it. I think one of the things I’m going to miss most though is my host mom, Juani, who was amazing. I know that she has had a huge part in the improvement of my Spanish skills. Talking to her for an hour at a time every day or almost every other day, getting to know her, she really was my mom away from home. Even though half the time it seemed like she was yelling, when really she wasn’t (typical Spanish!), I am really going to miss talking to her and everything.
Of the things I’m not going to miss, I would say as nice as siesta is, it is also a pain. When everything closes from 2-5 every day and you can’t do anything, it becomes inconvenient, like how everything is closed on Sundays. I also won’t miss prepaid phones, especially when you run out of minutes. I only ran out here at the end, but still. I won’t miss eating so much meat, who knows what all I’ve actually eaten while I’ve been here! I just stopped asking after awhile. Other than that, those are the only things I can really think of right now offhand.
Things I would have done differently…I wish that we had had classes with Spanish students, and at the Universidad de Alcalá where most of the other students were studying in Alcalá. We were the only American kids at our school, and even though there obviously were Spanish kids there, we didn’t really have any interaction with them. We pretty much had to find our own Spanish friends, which like I said, I’m so glad to have met Araceli and her family. I think if I could do it over, I would probably request to live alone, not because of the roommate problems I have, but I think I could have learned even more Spanish. She pretty much always talked to me in English when our mom wasn’t around, which made me mad since I would try to talk to her in Spanish, but oh well. I also wish there would have been more people in our house more often, but oh well. The other thing is I definitely would NOT have brought so much luggage, haha. That is something I still have not learned after 10 years of traveling, is how to pack light. Oh well. I really hope that I get back to Spain sometime in the fairly near future, although who knows when that will be. I still really want to get to Sevilla, and also to see the Semana Santa festivities, since we missed that. I think if I go to grad school, I would like to go somewhere in South or Central America, just to experience that part of the world, since I’ve never been there, and I’ve been around Europe a lot. As a lot of people said, I don’t know that I would come back with BG, they have a pretty good program, but there are some flaws, of course, as with any program.
I am definitely sad to leave, this morning in the taxi it was bittersweet. I am anxious and excited to get home and see my family and friends, but sad to leave everyone and everything behind here. I know I’m going to keep in touch with a lot of people though, Spanish and BG kids. I hope to get to BG and visit everyone, perhaps see a hockey game! Luckily most people live in Ohio, Columbus even, so it won’t be so bad. It has been a fantastic experience, and I can’t believe it’s already over; it seems like just yesterday that Nicole and I got here and were waiting for everyone. I think that is about it for now, so another chapter in my life closes and another begins…España te quiero, hasta pronto.
Besitos.
I think the things that I will miss most are fairly obvious, although probably not all. Of course, I will miss all the kids in our program, I think I now know almost as much about BG as I do about Miami, Magda, Susana, etc. I will miss Araceli, Javi, Javier, and Laura, our amazing intercambios, from who I learned so much and had experiences I never would have had had I not met them. On a smaller scale, I’ll miss some of the food, paella (not mariscos, but chicken!), tortilla española, sunny side up eggs and real, fresh fries, the pastries, the bread, cheese, etc. I’ll miss the sunshine and the perfectly cloudless days, besitos, horrible Spanish haircuts and mullets (the Spanish are experts!), meeting friends in the Plaza de Cervantes for a drink and to hang out, public transportation, coming home after the sun comes up, and hardly any homework. I’ll miss booking a bus a few days before to take a daytrip somewhere, even another country, or traveling every weekend. Siesta is also one of those things, it’s nice to rest in the middle of the afternoon, but at the same time its pretty annoying when everything is closed and you can’t do anything. There are many things I know I’m leaving out, but I really am going to miss it. I think one of the things I’m going to miss most though is my host mom, Juani, who was amazing. I know that she has had a huge part in the improvement of my Spanish skills. Talking to her for an hour at a time every day or almost every other day, getting to know her, she really was my mom away from home. Even though half the time it seemed like she was yelling, when really she wasn’t (typical Spanish!), I am really going to miss talking to her and everything.
Of the things I’m not going to miss, I would say as nice as siesta is, it is also a pain. When everything closes from 2-5 every day and you can’t do anything, it becomes inconvenient, like how everything is closed on Sundays. I also won’t miss prepaid phones, especially when you run out of minutes. I only ran out here at the end, but still. I won’t miss eating so much meat, who knows what all I’ve actually eaten while I’ve been here! I just stopped asking after awhile. Other than that, those are the only things I can really think of right now offhand.
Things I would have done differently…I wish that we had had classes with Spanish students, and at the Universidad de Alcalá where most of the other students were studying in Alcalá. We were the only American kids at our school, and even though there obviously were Spanish kids there, we didn’t really have any interaction with them. We pretty much had to find our own Spanish friends, which like I said, I’m so glad to have met Araceli and her family. I think if I could do it over, I would probably request to live alone, not because of the roommate problems I have, but I think I could have learned even more Spanish. She pretty much always talked to me in English when our mom wasn’t around, which made me mad since I would try to talk to her in Spanish, but oh well. I also wish there would have been more people in our house more often, but oh well. The other thing is I definitely would NOT have brought so much luggage, haha. That is something I still have not learned after 10 years of traveling, is how to pack light. Oh well. I really hope that I get back to Spain sometime in the fairly near future, although who knows when that will be. I still really want to get to Sevilla, and also to see the Semana Santa festivities, since we missed that. I think if I go to grad school, I would like to go somewhere in South or Central America, just to experience that part of the world, since I’ve never been there, and I’ve been around Europe a lot. As a lot of people said, I don’t know that I would come back with BG, they have a pretty good program, but there are some flaws, of course, as with any program.
I am definitely sad to leave, this morning in the taxi it was bittersweet. I am anxious and excited to get home and see my family and friends, but sad to leave everyone and everything behind here. I know I’m going to keep in touch with a lot of people though, Spanish and BG kids. I hope to get to BG and visit everyone, perhaps see a hockey game! Luckily most people live in Ohio, Columbus even, so it won’t be so bad. It has been a fantastic experience, and I can’t believe it’s already over; it seems like just yesterday that Nicole and I got here and were waiting for everyone. I think that is about it for now, so another chapter in my life closes and another begins…España te quiero, hasta pronto.
Besitos.